What is happening tonight?

Begin with the one that feels closest

Sleeplessness does not have one single cause. These pages do not label you; they separate different situations so the next step can be more specific.

N

I wake at night and cannot fall back asleep

Ease the tension of being awake before deciding whether to leave bed.

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R

I lie down but sleep does not come

Replace “I must sleep” with the more reachable goal of resting.

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M

My mind will not slow down at bedtime

Give thoughts a place where they can be set down and revisited later.

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D

I keep waking too early

Notice clues from rhythm, light, and stress.

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C

I am tired by day and alert at night

See how sleep pressure and the body clock work together.

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X

I just want some company

You do not need to know why. Begin with how this moment feels.

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If none of these quite fits

Tell Xiaoju what feels hardest right now

You do not need to understand sleep first. Xiaoju can begin with this one sentence.

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